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Apr 2025
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My ROCD Story: How I Faced Doubt and Fou...

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Welcome to episode 488 of the OCD and Anxiety Podcast, where we delve into developing a more positive relationship with anxiety disorders. In this episode, I share my personal story of overcoming Relationship OCD, detailing the challenges and triumphs along the way.

For anyone struggling with OCD or anxiety, I offer a free 30-minute discovery call to explore potential support. Visit robertjamescoaching.com for more details or check the link in the show notes.

Listen in as I discuss how expectations in relationships can sometimes lead to unnecessary fear and doubt, and how overcoming compulsions and embracing acceptance commitment therapy can lead to a more fulfilling partnership

Disclaimer:

Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

 

 

 

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