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The Minimalists get brutally honest about the people, places, and things that frustrate the hell out of us.

Discussed in this episode:

What can I do if my sister is so upset with me that she refuses to communicate? (2:17)

What frustrating expectations do your family, friends, or coworkers have of you? (18:28)

Listener tip: Considerately letting go of kids' clothes and toys. (41:33)

Listen to the full Maximal episode on Patreon: patreon.com/theminimalists

Detailed show notes: minimalists.com/podcast

Recorded at Earthing Studios.

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