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Apr 10
45m 43s

Ending a Narcissistic Relationship Once ...

Dr. Amelia Kelley
About this episode

Key Takeaways

  • Narcissism exists on a spectrum—from benign to malicious—and all narcissists are abusive in some way.
  • One of the most dangerous times in a narcissistic relationship is when you try to leave—safety planning is crucial.
  • Narcissists often manipulate through subtle gaslighting and by shifting the blame. You are made to feel like you are the problem.
  • The emotional divorce is often more difficult than the legal one—it's where true healing begins.
  • Awareness → Acceptance → Action: This is the roadmap to freedom and recovery.
  • Co-parenting with a narcissist is complex—parallel parenting with strong boundaries is key.
  • Healing requires being witnessed, mirrored, and supported by a therapist or coach who understands narcissistic abuse.

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