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Apr 2025
24m 52s

225. The Psychology of First Impressions...

SUSAN CALLENDER
About this episode

In episode #225 of the Social Skills Mastery podcast we explore the science behind creating lasting positive impressions and developing genuine likability in professional contexts.

 

Episode Highlights:

  • Discover why Maya Angelou's insight that "people will forget what you said and did, but never how you made them feel" is the foundation of true likability
  • Learn about confirmation bias and the halo effect - the psychological mechanisms that make first impressions so powerful and difficult to change
  • Explore the Inside-Out, Outside-In approach to creating positive first impressions by managing both your internal state and external presentation
  • Understand the "interest paradox" - why being interested is significantly more effective than trying to be interesting
  • Master techniques for creating positive emotional impact in every interaction
  • Develop authentic positivity through control orientation, solution architecture, and possibility thinking
  • Learn practical strategies for energy management to maintain appropriate presence in different contexts
  • Discover how to strategically curate your professional network for maximum growth and opportunity

Authentic likability isn't about manipulating others—it's about creating environments where people experience themselves positively in your presence. Through evidence-based practices and consistent implementation, you can develop the kind of genuine likability that enhances all dimensions of your professional relationships and career trajectory.

 

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