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Mar 2025
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How To Get Over Someone You Can't Get Ov...

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About this episode

Bestselling author Najwa Zebian joins me to share her wisdom on healing and how to get over someone you STILL can't get over.In this episode, we tackle some of the most common yet confusing questions that come up when you’re trying to move on from someone — or even just figure out where you stand. Is it okay to still miss someone from your past? Should you text your ex, or is that just a bad idea? What happens when you find yourself stuck, missing someone you never really dated in the first place? We’ll also dive into the tricky territory of dating before you’re completely over someone, and when exactly it’s the right time to talk about exes with someone new.


BREAKDOWN


(0:00) Intro

(2:30) Is it okay to miss someone from the past?

(5:18) Should I text my ex?

(10:48) Miss them from far away

(18:35) How to get over someone you never really dated?

(32:04) Is it okay to date again if you're not over someone?

(39:36) when is it a good time for someone to talk about exes?


Melodies and Mindsets with Najwa Zebian


(47:11) Cry For Me by the Weeknd

(57:21) Old Body, New Mind by Nemahsis

(59:14) Grief - Healing words by Najwa Zebian

(1:09:06) Free Me by Anees

(1:12:58) Conclusion: listen to this if you're still missing them.

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