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Mar 2025
15m 35s

5 Phrases to Open and Turn Her On—Instan...

Kim Anami
About this episode

What happens when you say the magic words? The ones that open hearts and legs? 


Your whole world and woman change. 

She transforms from tight and tense and naggy to open, flowing and free and your biggest support and secret weapon in all of your life. 


Try having a productive day at work when you’ve just had a massive fight with your woman that morning. 


Now try having a productive day at work when she’s woken you up with a blow job. 


Getting and keeping your woman sexually and emotionally open and available to you is the life, business and high-performance hack you never knew you needed. 


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