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Mar 2025
50m 38s

130: Red Flags & Green Flags: How to Kno...

The Sabrina Zohar Show
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Ever found yourself overanalyzing texts, questioning someone’s interest, or feeling stuck in a cycle of mixed signals? In this episode, I sit down with Francesca Tighinean, a coach with a background in psychology, to break down the real signs of attraction vs. manipulation. We’re diving into love bombing, future faking, and the subtle body language cues that reveal whether someone is genuinely interested—or just keeping you around for their own validation.

If you’ve ever been caught in the push-pull of someone who showers you with attention one day and disappears the next, this episode is your wake-up call. We’re giving you the tools to spot red flags early, avoid emotional whiplash, and date with more clarity and confidence. Press play now!

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