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Mar 2025
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Jay Shetty: Why You Keep Settling for Le...

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Continuing the deep dive into understanding and cultivating self-worth, Lisa Bilyeu and Jay Shetty explore the transformative journey of self-discovery and growth. In this segment, they tackle the often blurred lines between intuition and insecurity, and discuss how personal history can shape these experiences. Lisa and Jay delve into relationship dynamics, discussing how to discern between love and lust, comfort and complacency, and how these confusions can impact your relationships and personal growth.


Jay imparts his unique perspective on how daily habits and intentional living can fortify self-worth and safeguard against settling for less. This episode is filled with practical advice, including strategies to navigate relationship challenges and nurture personal growth. Tune in to be inspired and empowered to take action towards a fulfilling and authentic life.


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06:40 Overcoming Passive Mindsets in Love

12:31 Building Self-Worth Through Challenges

16:52 Differences: Love vs. Lust, Comfort vs. Complacency

21:08 Recognizing Healthy Relationships

24:44 Transforming Negative Thoughts for Positive Action

28:23 Jay's Tips for Building Self-Worth


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