Actor Sarah Yarkin joins Mal in untangling their past straight lives with men and the relationships patterns that they developed during that time. Sarah opens up about her history of dating unavailable men and how these experiences led to an anxious attachment style which could only be cured by... homosexuality!! Well, kind of - watch to find out!
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Nov 18
Losing a Friend to Cancer with Tig Notaro
Actor, comedian, writer, and co-host of The Handsome Podcast, Tig Notaro joins Mal this week to talk about the devastating loss of her friend Andrea Gibson, facing her own cancer battle, the grief of losing her mom, at the same time as navigating a breakup. She also offers a glim ... Show More
39m 43s
Nov 2024
Safe Conversations: How to Talk to Your Partner with Harville & Helen
Today, Jillian welcomes two very special guests—Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt. As internationally renowned authors and relationship experts, Harville and Helen have spent decades helping people build healthier, more connected relationships, and today, we’re discussing t ... Show More
41m 22s
Oct 2024
New Kinks, Disclosing STIs, and Going Monk Mode
<p>When is the best time to disclose an STI? What’s the best way to introduce new partners to your kinks? Is “monk mode” a real thing? Jeff and guest co-host Alex Moskovich are here to answer these thoughtful, vulnerable questions and more on this week’s Problem Solved. </p> ... Show More
45m 7s
Sep 30
Therapists Answer Erotic Questions After Hours
<p>Problemistas, we've missed you. We're working on our brand this week, establishing our "after hours" vibe. Which prompted a soundboard re-think. It'll make sense when you listen. Just jump in and click play. </p><p>16:00 - Question 1 - Masterbating, oh what fun.</p><p>23:47 - ... Show More
1h 1m
Mar 2025
Curiosity Over Questioning
What’s the difference between curiosity and questioning in relationships? Learn about the importance of approaching emotional challenges with openness rather than interrogation. Colter, Cayla, and Lauren share their personal journey into couples therapy, attachment theory, and th ... Show More
50m 34s
Dec 2024
489: What Can You Learn After 500 Episodes? Chase Celebration!
On this episode, Colter, Cayla, and Lauren sit down with the long-running Relationship Advice podcast host Chase Kosterlitz as he reflects on ten years of hosting, sharing key lessons/insights about relationships and emphasizing the importance of friendships and somatic practices ... Show More
52m 5s
Mar 2025
solicited advice on: having a different love language than your partner, dealbreakers vs. preferences, jealousy in friendships, & why situationships hurt so much
230: Two bff's *who have no idea what they're doing* giving you solicited advice on (mainly) dating and relationships. Drea came back for another episode & we're answering a few of your Q's this week - everything from: the difference between venting vs. gossiping, when ghosting i ... Show More
59m 8s
Apr 2025
The Healthy Relationship: How To Break Destructive Relationship Patterns
We all have patterns in relationships—some helpful, some destructive. In this solo episode, Jillian breaks down the unconscious behaviors we fall into when we feel out of control—like fighting, fixing, or fleeing—and how they keep us stuck in cycles of disconnection. Whether you' ... Show More
49m 9s