Actor Sarah Yarkin joins Mal in untangling their past straight lives with men and the relationships patterns that they developed during that time. Sarah opens up about her history of dating unavailable men and how these experiences led to an anxious attachment style which could only be cured by... homosexuality!! Well, kind of - watch to find out!
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Oct 7
Surviving Heartbreak with Maggie Lindemann
Singer-Songwriter Maggie Lindemann joins Mal this week to share her story of growing up in Dallas, being an internet kid, coming out to her family and online, and navigating her first real heartbreak. And, of course, they discuss a love affair with ChatGPT. Follow our guest @magg ... Show More
43m 17s
Sep 30
Relationships Are The Greatest Mirror with Miranda Maday
Follow the guest , follow Mal @malglowenke and follow the podcast @madeitout 👉 Subscribe, like & comment to support queer content! Check out our new show, Out For A Drive, and please remember to subscribe, engage, like, comment, show us some love babyyyy! https://youtu.be/Kk8c ... Show More
53m 53s
Sep 23
Lesbian Representation with Mindy
This week, Mal sits down with artist and host of The Thick podcast - Mindy, who just watched "The L Word" for the first time. Mindy gives us her hot takes on the show, and the two reflect on how sapphic representation has evolved since. This discussion explores where it’s been, w ... Show More
53m 55s
Nov 2024
Safe Conversations: How to Talk to Your Partner with Harville & Helen
Today, Jillian welcomes two very special guests—Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt. As internationally renowned authors and relationship experts, Harville and Helen have spent decades helping people build healthier, more connected relationships, and today, we’re discussing t ... Show More
41m 22s
Oct 2024
New Kinks, Disclosing STIs, and Going Monk Mode
When is the best time to disclose an STI? What’s the best way to introduce new partners to your kinks? Is “monk mode” a real thing? Jeff and guest co-host Alex Moskovich are here to answer these thoughtful, vulnerable questions and more on this week’s Problem Solved. Listen to Je ... Show More
45m 7s
Sep 30
Therapists Answer Erotic Questions After Hours
Problemistas, we've missed you. We're working on our brand this week, establishing our "after hours" vibe. Which prompted a soundboard re-think. It'll make sense when you listen. Just jump in and click play. 16:00 - Question 1 - Masterbating, oh what fun.23:47 - Question 2 - My b ... Show More
1h 1m
Mar 2025
Curiosity Over Questioning
What’s the difference between curiosity and questioning in relationships? Learn about the importance of approaching emotional challenges with openness rather than interrogation. Colter, Cayla, and Lauren share their personal journey into couples therapy, attachment theory, and th ... Show More
52m 34s
Dec 2024
489: What Can You Learn After 500 Episodes? Chase Celebration!
On this episode, Colter, Cayla, and Lauren sit down with the long-running Relationship Advice podcast host Chase Kosterlitz as he reflects on ten years of hosting, sharing key lessons/insights about relationships and emphasizing the importance of friendships and somatic practices ... Show More
54m 5s
Apr 2025
The Healthy Relationship: How To Break Destructive Relationship Patterns
We all have patterns in relationships—some helpful, some destructive. In this solo episode, Jillian breaks down the unconscious behaviors we fall into when we feel out of control—like fighting, fixing, or fleeing—and how they keep us stuck in cycles of disconnection. Whether you' ... Show More
45m 9s
Aug 25
Limerence: The Psychology of Romantic Obsession with Brandy Wyant
Forrest and therapist Brandy Wyant discuss limerence, an intense and often one-sided state of romantic obsession. They explore how limerence differs from both love and ordinary crushes, why uncertainty fuels it, and how it can take over a person’s inner world. Brandy shares both ... Show More
1h 4m