Before you begin your porn reboot or detox, preparation is key.
In this special rebroadcast episode from 2022, Jeremy shares five essential steps to set yourself up for success. These strategies apply not only to quitting porn but also to overcoming other compulsive habits like social media, food addiction, and more. Learn how to clarify your "why," remove triggers, and build accountability for lasting change.
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Timestamps:
(00:00) – Introduction: Why preparation is crucial before quitting porn
(02:45) – Tip #1: Connect with your "why" – understanding the consequences of your habit
(08:30) – The power of the "default future" exercise: Where will you be in 10 or 20 years?
(12:15) – Tip #2: Envision the life you want to create – focus on approach-oriented goals
(18:10) – How emotions drive our habits & how to shift toward fulfillment
(21:45) – Tip #3: Accept that relapse will happen – progress over perfection
(27:30) – The importance of how you respond to relapse & overcoming shame
(32:20) – Tip #4: Remove triggers and barriers – why willpower isn’t enough
(38:40) – Dr. Anna Lembke’s research on stimulus control & dopamine management
(42:15) – Practical ways to make relapse harder (blocking strategies)
(46:00) – Tip #5: Get accountability & support – the key to lasting change
(52:30) – Why coaching and structured guidance can make all the difference
(56:00) – Final recap: The five essential steps before your reboot
(58:15) – How to get support & closing thoughts
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