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Mar 2025
18m 45s

IF YOU WANTED TO YOU WOULD

Ashley Corbo
About this episode
We've all heard the quote, "If they wanted to, they would." You might have even used that quote to determine how someone feels about you. In today's episode, we're using this type of thinking and applying it to ourselves. If you wanted to do something, you would. If you wanted to chase your dreams, you would. If you wanted to leave that relationship, you would. If you wanted to move across the country, you would. Instead of making excuses for why things aren't working out for you, start asking yourself, "Am I doing everything that I can to make what I want work?"


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