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Feb 2025
22m 52s

Why Every Man Should Build ‘Command Pres...

Ryan Michler
About this episode

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the concept of Command Presence—the ability to lead with confidence, clarity, and composure. He breaks down the four essential pillars of command presence: Clarity, Character, Competence, and Composure. Through personal stories and real-world examples, Ryan explains why every man should cultivate this leadership trait to positively influence his family, workplace, and community.

He also shares insights from a recent leadership discussion inside the Iron Council. Tune in to learn how to build command presence and become the man you are meant to be.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

00:00 – Introduction to Command Presence 01:40 – The four pillars of Command Presence 03:47 – Importance of clarity in leadership 05:12 – Character: Leading by example 10:46 – Competence: Why skills matter 13:08 – Composure under pressure 14:15 – A real-world example of Command Presence 18:58 – Why Command Presence impacts every area of life 20:28 – Final thoughts and takeaways

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