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Feb 2025
28m 26s

Why Your 20s Are for You, Not for Him: H...

Taylor King & Red Circle
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Your 20s are for you, not for chasing some guy. In this episode, we’re talking all things singleness—how to be confident, ditch the pressure to be in a relationship, and actually enjoy this time in your life. If you’ve ever felt behind or wondered if you should be dating, consider this your reminder that being single is a total power move. Let’s romanticize your solo era and make it the best time ever.



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