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Feb 2025
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Solo Sermon: Prioritize Your People | Ep...

KOEREYELLE, Personal Development Coach
About this episode

Sis, let’s talk about it—when was the last time you really sat down and asked yourself, What am I working for? Who am I giving my time to? And is it really worth it?

In this episode, I’m diving deeper into priorities—how easily we get caught up in overworking, overspending, and overextending ourselves for things (and people) that, in the grand scheme of life, just don’t matter. After my husband's heart attack, I had to get real about what truly deserves my energy. And let me tell you, some of these relationships, habits, and expenses had to GO.

We’re talking about:

💰 Overspending – Are you working just to fund unnecessary expenses?

💡 People-Pleasing – Are you keeping relationships out of obligation, not alignment?

Time-Wasting – Are you pouring into people who wouldn’t do the same for you?

This is your reminder to check in with YOURSELF. Are you holding onto things just because you’ve invested time? Are you stuck in cycles that don’t serve you anymore? Let’s get clear, let’s realign, and let’s make sure we’re keeping the main thing the main thing.

Tap in, reflect, and let’s stop playing about what (and WHO) really matters!



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