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Feb 2025
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110. Ask A Therapist: Attachment Styles,...

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Go to ⁠⁠Zocdoc.com/NOTFOREVERYONE⁠⁠ to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today.

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Boy, do we have a treat for you! Jess and Caroline sit down with therapist, artist, and writer Carter Umhau to discuss all your burning questions. They tackle manifestation vs. taking action, witnessing a friend get into a tricky dating situation, fixing your attachment style, getting in touch with your body, and what it means if you’re not progressing in therapy.

Plus, they get into a few kooky things as well: Carter exposes her Google Search History, and the three discuss which celebrities have the best butts. Get therapized babies! (You know, in actual therapy sessions…because this isn’t *technically* therapy. Okay, enjoy!) 


Find Carter Umhau at www.carterumhau.com and on IG @carterfleet. To join her class on transforming your relationship with creativity, visit https://www.carterumhau.com/artists-way-course-page.

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This episode was produced by our prince, Abi Newhouse (⁠⁠@abinewhouse⁠⁠). ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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