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Feb 2025
49m 17s

The Conversations that Bring Us Closer

Hidden Brain, Shankar Vedantam
About this episode
Last week on the show, we looked at the science of conversation, and how even ordinary chats can involve a delicate dance of coordination. This week, we explore the discussions we all dread: the tough ones. Telling someone they treated us poorly. Demanding a raise. Taking away an elderly relative's car keys. We talk with Alison Wood Brooks about what makes d ... Show More
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