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Feb 2025
54m 22s

How To Date: The first date

Elizabeth Day and Sony Music Entertainment
About this episode
Mel and Elizabeth continue their dating journey and today, we’ve reached one of the most nerve-wracking, yet potentially thrilling, milestones: the first date.  Our guest is the fabulous Ryan Lanji, cultural producer, winner of Netflix’s Big Flower Fight and all-round icon. Ryan joins us to break down everything from the lead-up to the date, how to naviga ... Show More
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