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Mar 2025
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113. Love Letter: How to Forgive and For...

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Jess has told us the greatest stories about her best friend Kae, and now finally, Kae joins for a Love Letter episode! The two discuss maintaining their friendship over a 15-year period, navigating friendship struggles, and giggle a lot about their many experiences along the way.

They also dive into dating in your 30s, and how to enjoy being single along the way. Kae talks a bit about her career in law, tells a story that justifies her fear of birds, and answers a few hot takes that take us, of course, into the world of reality television. Kisses! Stay til the end for an a cappella surprise!


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