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May 2025
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Christian Dating Red Flags: What to Look...

JONNY ARDAVANIS
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Wondering what red flags to watch for when dating? In this episode, we discuss personal, familial, relational, and spiritual warning signs to consider in Christian relationships.

Learn about setting healthy boundaries, how to evaluate potential partners, and get practical advice on questions like "How long should I date?" and "What if there's no one at my church?" We dive into important topics like handling someone's past, financial readiness for marriage, and whether Christian dating apps are a good option.

This conversation covers essential dating wisdom including:

- Key personal red flags like social awareness and financial stewardship

- How to navigate family dynamics in relationships

- Spiritual maturity indicators to look for in a partner

- Practical answers to common Christian dating questions

Whether you're looking for your first relationship or trying to make better dating choices, this episode provides biblical perspective on finding a godly partner who demonstrates the character traits that lead to a healthy marriage.

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