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Jan 2025
41m 30s

I'm lowkey avoidant & highkey motherly

Hallie Batchelder
About this episode

Hallie is back in LA and sharing all the Extra Dirty lore—from her surprising motherly instincts to the logistics of hosting a man for a hookup (yes, entertaining dumb men is a skill). She spills on her childhood nickname “Headwound Hallie,” earned from being a perpetually tipping-over toddler, and dishes on if she has ever shed tears over a man... okay, who hasn't at least once?

 

Then, Hallie gets real about her avoidant-dismissive attachment style, how it fuels her insecurities in relationships, and why she’s drawn to men who ignite her toxic side. Plus, she answers all your burning questions: craziest place she’s had sex, thoughts on “it’s not you, it’s me,” how to enjoy being on top, the best country for dick, and more!

 

Tie up your robe, pop the champagne, and follow @extradirty on socials to follow along with all the silliness! Remember to also leave a review and subscribe to keep the chaos coming. Love you!

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