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I Got Lost in Europe

The Girkbags went international, again! No service, questionable directions, scary sheep, and too many bugs...beach clubs by day and discos by night. We wrapped it up with a BFF Q&A that explains (almost) everything. *** Follow and connect with all things @HotMess across Instagra ... Show More

50m 51s

Jun 26

What's the New Hot Mess?

This isn’t your traditional podcast, but I promise, there’s something for everyone. I’m so happy to be back with the Earle Girls. xo Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Jun 18

Miami Swim Week: Runways & Strip Clubs

(VIDEO AVAILABLE ON SPOTIFY & YOUTUBE) Join me for MIAMI SWIM WEEK and find out what really goes on behind-the-scenes... I celebrate the Sports Illustrated Swimsuit fam, drink SipMARGS and party with Braxton and some of my closest friends… but not without getting super anxious be ... Show More

28m 2s

Oct 2024

How To Be A Good Friend When You Have a BF

We all know at least one friend who goes 'off grid' when getting into a new relationship - ditching the group hangouts, not replying to messages, cancelling last minute, the list goes on. Today's episode, we're giving our best advice on how to stay a 'girls girl' when you start d ... Show More

10m 9s

Feb 2025

Boy Talk: He's holding a grudge against MY VIBRATOR

Bienvenue! We're saying 'Hola' to all the Sarahs and Brians this week, and unfortunately subjecting you to some awful dirty talk. We have a Susan asking if she should risk it all for a hot celeb, a Brian who won't bite the bullet (in more ways than one) and a Sarah wondering if h ... Show More

1h 15m

Dec 2024

It's Me Tinx Live: He's Dating My Friend Long Distance Too

I am coming to you guys from the SXM Miami studios, and even though I am enjoying some fun doesn’t mean your drama is on pause. Today we come across one of the worst cases of “the audacity of men” as we find out he was dating both her and her friend long distance. Just incase w ... Show More

48m 54s

Mar 2025

Girl Talk: They BOTH fancy MY MAN!!

Happy Wednesday!! We're back at the TGB HQ to ask if we should be drag queens and share in our regrettable fashion choices. We have a Sarah who's way too concerned about her bestie's boyfriend's height and a Susan's 30th birthday has been all but forgotten. Brian's friends are cr ... Show More

1h 4m

Sep 2022

How to Handle a Psycho Ex

Have you ever dealt with a psycho ex? Did they bombard you with hundreds of texts and emails? Threaten to contact your friends, family or employer? Post your nudes online? Father Cooper is talking to victims rights attorney Carrie Goldberg, who is an expert at fighting psychos, a ... Show More

39m 25s

Nov 2022

19. why the no contact rule actually works

hi besties <3 i saw a tiktok recently where someone was struggling to go without texting their ex and reached out to people for advice on what to do and i was inspired to give you guys all my tips and tricks from when i was in a similar situation in the past. so we're talking abo ... Show More

33m 13s

May 21

412: This Is Going to Be a Therapy Session (w/ Shan Boodram!)

How do I become someone people care about? Should I tell my roommate’s boyfriend that she is cheating on him? How do I meet people and start dating? What break-up remedies do you recommend? My boyfriend has a different aesthetic than mine, how do we decorate? How do I deal with t ... Show More

45m 18s

Jun 2

It's Me, Tinx Live: I Sent a Horrible Anti Ghost Text

I am loving our new Monday time together, so I can give you a fresh debrief on my weekend. I had a boring date, got hit on by a guy with a girlfriend, and I ended up sending a less than acceptable anti ghost text. UGH, note to self never outsource to your single guy friends for h ... Show More

48m 29s

Feb 2025

Its Me, Tinx Live: My Friend Joined a Cult

Another week, another first. I talk to a caller who had to drop a lifelong friend due to joining what she views as a cult. A woman who has some serious red flags to deal with in regards to a boyfriend that seems to be angry about nothing. Oh, and when is the best time to sleep ... Show More

48m 41s

Hot Mess Hotline: I'm Still in Love with...