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Jan 2025
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Why Money Goals Don’t Equal Happiness (A...

Shari Rash, Money Podcast for Women, Personal Finance, Relationships & Mental Health
About this episode

Are you grinding away at your money goals but still feeling unfulfilled? You're not alone. In this episode of Everyone’s Talkin’ Money, I chat with Jordan Grumet to tackle the big question: What’s the difference between purpose and happiness? Why do so many of us struggle with purpose anxiety? And how can we rethink our relationship with money to build a life that feels truly meaningful?

Jordan breaks down the difference between 'big P' purpose—the daunting, goal-oriented ideal that can cause anxiety—and 'little p' purpose, which is all about finding joy in the process. He explores how money is a tool, not the goal itself, and why building purpose through action is the key to living a life aligned with your values.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in the cycle of chasing goals without feeling fulfilled, this conversation is packed with practical strategies, powerful insights, and actionable takeaways to help you get unstuck and move forward.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • What purpose anxiety is and why 91% of people experience it.
  • Why you can’t purpose your way to happiness without meaning.
  • How money can serve as a tool to achieve happiness and fulfillment.
  • Practical tips to redefine your goals and create a more meaningful life.


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