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Jan 2025
22m 1s

What's Gay and What's Not?

JAMES BARR AND DAN HUDSON
About this episode
Happy New Year! We're kicking off 2025 how we meant to go on... with an insightful debate around the perceptions of behaviours and items labelled as 'gay' by society. Oh, we're also talking New Years Resolutions (and reflecting on past resolutions) of course! But, seriously, is 2025 the year where people will finally stop calling things 'gay'? Maybe we'll ev ... Show More
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