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Dec 2024
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Dating scam: the golden deceiver - a cau...

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About this episode

Even the best get got. And you know it’s never on any shame here. This is a 2 hour, cautionary dating story-time about a man with dirty-john motivations, lying, deceptive tendencies, fake-charming qualities and scamming ways. Honestly? This story could have stopped one date in, so you know the willingness to be lied to here was peak. Alas, during the events and even up till right now, the plot was too good to stop.

You’ll scream, laugh, cry and hopefully not fall for the same traps I did

Events in this story originally took place in October 2024 and were shared as a 2024 Christmas Day story on a live stream on twitch. Walk down the path of how we got here through every moment of clarity, from first swipe to the bitter block.


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