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Dec 2024
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Sex Emails

Kirk Honda
About this episode
Dr Kirk and Humberto answer emails regarding sex, including an email from a possible perpetrator.

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month.

00:00 Retroactive jealousy
12:10 Sexting boundaries
17:46 2023 OPP
19:24 Navigating libido
31:25 2023 OPP

32:15 TW SA Did I commit an evil act?

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December 25, 2024

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