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If you’ve ever felt like you’re trapped in a time loop of bad relationships or self-destructive patterns, you’re not alone. Why do we sometimes stay in situations that don’t serve us? And were those situations a huge waste of time or something else? 

Do I change my career? Do I move? Do I wait? If I change, will I be happy or sad? Never let life's hard decisions stop you from making decisions that are right for you? 

Sure, some partners are toxic or dysfunctional. But what if they're not that at all but just not that bright? What if you are trying to squeeze something out of a partner that simply doesn't exist? Does that make automatic incompatibility? I go through deep exploration of that in ... Show More

EP69 - so i did an event at the weekend with a q&a and thought it would be useful to share some of the answers i gave there. in this episode, i talk a lot about what i have learnt in terms of coping mechanisms for different stresses and challenges that often come along in life. w ... Show More

in this episode we're diving into the topic of change and how we can learn to deal with it gracefully ♡ change is the only constant in life and for that we talk about ways to anticipate change, handle the stress that comes with it, ways to cope, ways to find acceptance / regain h ... Show More

Have you ever avoided dealing with a problem, hoping it would just go away on its own? I know I have -- and I have a WILD story to share with you about what happens when we do this.Join me this week to understand why problem avoidance is so tempting but so counterproductive. You’ ... Show More

Find out how to work with me at Take Out Therapy!When life feels too heavy to carry, it’s not just in your head—it influences a lot of areas of your life- work, parenting and relationships are just the tipping point.This episode unpacks how overwhelm locks you in and why the usua ... Show More

We all have people in our lives that drive us bananas—but dealing with them doesn’t have to drain your energy.Navigating difficult relationships with a healthier approach can help you feel more in control and less affected by negativity. With the right mindset and strategies, you ... Show More

In today's episode, we discuss how to make succeeding in your life easy, how the way you identify with yourself can hinder your ability to make meaningful change, and how sometimes all you really need to do is change your perspective. Learn more from Dr. K in his Guide to Mental ... Show More

If you ever feel stuck in one way or another, here's something helpful to remember: two things can be true at the same time.Life is rarely black and white, and learning to hold space for multiple truths can help you navigate challenges with more clarity and compassion. Expanding ... Show More

I have a secret portal that allows me to see and understand what childhood trauma does to people -- the different patterns it follows, and which kinds of people end up making rapid progress, and which ones stay stuck. I get this insight from letters and YouTube comments -- thousa ... Show More

Letting go is one of the most important skills you can learn—but it’s not always easy.Life’s dramas have a way of pulling us in, making it hard to disengage and move forward. But with the right mindset and tools, you can release what no longer serves you and create more peace in ... Show More

If you've struggled with binge eating, food addiction or emotional eating for some time, you may find that the stresses and isolation of the quarantine have worsened your symptoms.  Or you may have had other life challenges that have caused stress and overwhelm in your life.  All ... Show More