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Dec 2024
39m 31s

WTF is “Normal” Sex w/ Dr. Maria Uloko

Dr. Emily Morse
About this episode

Ever wonder if your penis/vulva/genitalia are normal? In this episode, I’m joined by urologist Dr. Maria Uloko who’s revolutionizing sexual healthcare. We get into why vulva-owners need testosterone, what happens when penis-owners masturbate too aggressively, how shame can interfere with getting the care you need, and how common it is to experience sexual dysfunction.

I also answer your questions including when it’s time to date again after a toxic relationship, what to do when your partner’s porn preferences look nothing like you, how to be dominant in the bedroom and toy recs to amplify oral sex on a vulva.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • How to address common causes of pain during sex
  • Treatments for sexual health challenges
  • Why there’s no “normal” when it comes to sexual health


Show Notes:


See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

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