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Dec 2024
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(Rewind): 6 Texts That Lead to Real Date...

MATTHEW HUSSEY
About this episode

It’s happened to the best of us. The flirty text banter that used to cause a surge of adrenaline has become pedestrian. And pretty soon “How was your day?” becomes “How was your week?”

Or perhaps they initiate a text conversation and tell you what they’re up to, but never actually ask you out.

Fortunately, all it takes is one small shift to turn it all around.

If you’ve lost momentum with someone, feel your momentum is headed in the wrong direction, or just want to improve your communication, this week’s video is a must-watch. I give you 6 specific text messages you can use or adapt to transform your current situation.

The great news is that you only need to try one of these 6 texts to change your dynamic right now. Be sure to let me know which one you try first in the comments!

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