With another year coming to a close, let's look back on the passage of time with actor, comedian, podcast host Cameron Esposito! Mal and Cameron examine the different experiences that come with being in your 20s, 30s, and 40s, and some of their concerns around aging. They also dive into some of their fears, and how friendships and family relationships shift ... Show More
Aug 11
Who Taught Women to Hate Their Bodies w/ Bradi Masci
This week, Mal sits down with artist Bradi Masci, who recently included Mal in a series of nude paintings celebrating queer figures in culture.Together, they unpack compulsory heterosexuality, the complicated relationship women are taught to have with their bodies, and how early ... Show More
42m 48s
Aug 4
A Family Full of Gays w/ Heather Shaw
Heather Shaw joins Mal for a nostalgic conversation about growing up in a family where every sibling eventually came out as gay and the unique closeness that can bring. Together, they reminisce about the shows, campaigns, and cultural moments that shaped how they understood thems ... Show More
50 m
Jul 28
Lesbian Summer Camp w/ Erin McGuire
Today Mal sits with Erin McGuire who after being laid off from her government research job, took an unexpected leap, creating a summer camp at a château in the French countryside that has become a gathering place for women, with a large sapphic community at its heart. What starte ... Show More
45m 43s
Jul 2023
Aging, Changing, and Thriving
We have a lot to unpack! Ashley turned 40 and is in a relationship, and Rayna reads fiction now and can't stop being naked. We recap the best trip of our lives from the laughs to the luxury to the perineum sunning, and also discuss aging and being confident in your looks/body. Th ... Show More
1h 8m
Dec 2021
Unfiltered (Ilana's Version)
On this year’s final episode, I sit down with my producer, Camila Vola, to celebrate Seeing Other People's 1st birthday by reflecting on everything that happened in 2021. I open up about how this was one of the hardest years of my life, my fears and hesitations around losing my c ... Show More
1h 11m
Nov 2025
#158 - Making Friends When You're Older
<p>We all have it easy when there are friends everywhere: in school, in the dorms, in your first apartment, at your office. But what happens as you get older and that surface area dwindles? Matt and Karo discuss how to handle it and make sure you have friends at all phases of lif ... Show More
30m 16s
Apr 2024
Weight Gain, Weight Loss & The Fear of Getting Older!
For some of us 30 is a new era of self-discovery and for others comes the sad realization that you’ll never be your younger self again. On this episode, we chat about the impacting opinions of others, negative self-talk, the many phases and fluctuations our bodies go through, and ... Show More
56m 15s
May 2024
Tricenarian // Entering My 3rd Decade, Confidence in Your 20s, Negative Perceptions Around Aging, And More!
Today, we're diving into my pivotal transition into the third decade of my life. From navigating the complexities of confidence in my 20s to challenging negative perceptions surrounding aging, we chatting about the multifaceted journey of adulthood. Tap in — it's an exciting pre- ... Show More
36 m