logo
episode-header-image
Nov 2024
15m 52s

Optimism Can Oppose Your Success!

Teal Swan
About this episode

While optimism is often seen as essential for success, it can actually backfire if it blinds you to reality. In this video, Teal Swan explores how unchecked optimism can sabotage your efforts, limit growth, and damage relationships. Discover how to balance optimism with realism, ensuring your path to success remains grounded and responsive.

Up next
Oct 31
How To Express Love Through Physical Touch
Physical touch is potentially the most obvious way that people express love to one another. Of course, cultural and individual attitudes about physical touch vary so much around the world, it is nothing short of shocking. And most people could still learn a thing or two about sho ... Show More
12m 41s
Oct 24
The URS Relationship Pattern (The Doomed Pattern of Unconditional Relationship Security)
It’s time for another relationship pattern to be revealed. I’ve been seeing this one a lot more lately, especially in individuals that belong to the millennial and even more so the gen Z generations. I’ve nicknamed this one the URS pattern. The Unconditional Relationship Security ... Show More
24m 12s
Oct 17
Are you in a Man’s Mentality or a Boy’s Mentality Towards Things?
So many men do not see the difference between a boy mentality and a man mentality. So, in today’s video, we are going to focus on one chapter of this critical difference in mentality. A boy’s vs. a man’s overall approach to things. 
13m 22s
Recommended Episodes
Jul 2024
211. The problem with 'toxic' positivity
Today on the podcast we are talking about toxic positivity and the problem with always being positive and putting a fluffy, warm, positive spin on things. Often our unrealistic optimism comes from a good place and our desire to be happy all the time but any person knows that isn' ... Show More
37m 46s
Oct 2019
Don't Accentuate the Positive
We often think positive thinking is the best way to achieve our ambitions - but the science shows it holds us all back. Dr Laurie Santos hears how champion swimmer Michael Phelps imagined the worst to help make his Olympic dreams come true. It's a mental habit that you can learn ... Show More
41m 26s
Sep 2025
Toxic Positivity: Smiling Through the Pain Isn’t the Answer
Have you ever had someone tell you to just be positive when you’re having a hard day? It might sound kind, but sometimes that kind of forced optimism can make us shut down instead of feel better.In this episode, we’ll talk about why real connection begins with honesty, not just s ... Show More
11m 6s
Oct 2023
Justifying Optimism
<p>All optimistic beliefs can be dangerous because they’re so comforting, so easy to accept without asking further questions. Hope often masquerades as optimism when you think things will improve only because the alternative is too scary to contemplate. <br/><br/>Every optimist n ... Show More
12m 39s
Mar 2025
Why "Just Be Positive" Is Toxic at Work
Tired of being told to “just stay positive” at work? Learn how toxic positivity dismisses real emotions and how to balance optimism with mindfulness to navigate workplace challenges in a healthy way. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices 
4m 6s
Feb 2022
Toxic positivity — when happiness becomes harmful
We're urged to stay positive and keep up a cheerful disposition ... but sometimes things are just awful, aren’t they? On All in the Mind this week we look at why we engage in toxic positivity, why it's so damaging when we do and whether something called 'tragic optimism' could be ... Show More
31m 20s
May 2024
Resistance Leads To Negativity
<p>It's natural to want special events or important moments to go well. However, our vision of what should happen sometimes doesn't align with reality. Instead of pivoting and making the most of the moment, we often let disappointment and discomfort sink in, causing us to miss ou ... Show More
10m 57s
Aug 2023
HUGE Reasons You Should Keep Quiet!
<p>While many people find value in sharing their dreams and goals with others, I have a different perspective... either your pursuits get affirmed or your dreams get deflated.<br/><br/>Both outcomes can be detrimental to your success, and I’ll explain why...<br/><br/>This video w ... Show More
12m 43s
Dec 2019
Is optimism ever bad for us?
As children, many of us were taught to think positively. According to research, however, this isn't always good advice. 
6m 51s
Mar 2023
Can people ”manifest” positive outcomes?
Why #LuckyGirlSyndrome and other versions of "the power of positive thinking" may not be helpful for everyone. 
10m 30s
Listen to millions of songs and podcasts on Anghami