logo
episode-header-image
Nov 2024
4m 50s

What are the best techniques for giving ...

BABABAM
About this episode

Society tends to make sex all about penetration, but it really doesn’t have to be that way. Giving your partner oral sex can be an invigorating experience on its own. 

Women often like to joke that men don’t know what they’re doing when they go down, so with that in mind let’s discuss some tips for giving your partner the pleasure they deserve. You have to know that every vulva is unique, and there isn’t a one-size-fits-all guide to pleasure and enjoyment. You really need to be curious and attentive if you want to give good head.

How am I supposed to know what my lady likes? Is there some techniques that women like the most though? What are some common ‘mistakes’? In under 3 minutes, we answer your questions!

To listen to the last episodes, you can click here:

Why do some people get a headache during sex?

Could using lube help you get more pleasure from sex?

Is sex without feelings ever a good idea?

A podcast written and realised by Joseph Chance.

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Up next
Today
Could using lube help you get more pleasure from sex?
Whether it’s out of necessity or for enjoyment, lubricant helps a lot of people in their sex lives. According to The Cleveland Clinic: “Around 17% of people assigned female at birth (AFAB) age 18 to 50 report problems with vaginal dryness during sex, even before menopause takes p ... Show More
5m 31s
Today
How do you know what size condom to use?
Condoms are the best protection out there against sexually transmitted infections and unwanted pregnancies! And you can get them for free on the NHS from sexual health clinics, some GP surgeries and pharmacies, and some young people’s services. But many people wonder how to find ... Show More
4m 41s
Today
How to spot, prevent and treat heatstroke ?
Heatstroke is a medical emergency that happens when your body temperature gets too high and you cannot cool down. This can harm your vital organs and even kill you if not treated quickly. Heatstroke can be caused by being exposed to high temperatures, such as during a heatwave, o ... Show More
4m 43s
Recommended Episodes
Feb 2025
#63 19 Orgasmic Blow Job Techniques to Make Your Man Explode with Samia Burton
Oral sex is one of the most commonly performed sexual activities, but that doesn’t necessarily mean that it comes naturally to everyone! To talk about how to up your blow job game and teach you orgasmic techniques to make your man explode, we are joined by the incredible Samia Bu ... Show More
50m 1s
Dec 2024
My Top Tips for 69ing & Oral Sex
Let’s 69! It’s one of those sex acts where you tend to be a full-on lover or hater. But no matter what camp you fall in, chances are that if you’re having sex, you’re going to come across the famous, the controversial, 69 sex position. Why not learn some pointers to make the whol ... Show More
36m 28s
Sep 2024
Episode 326: Sex Tips For Women
Female sexual pleasure is a topic that is not often covered in traditional sex education. In fact, it’s extraordinarily rare for the word “clitoris” to even be mentioned in sex ed! The unfortunate result is that many women (and their partners) never learn the information they rea ... Show More
33m 20s
Feb 2022
217: John Gray - Recipe For An Amazing Sex Life
“I’ve got a job. I’ve got work. I’ve got money. I’ve got all kinds of things that make me happy. I don't need a woman to be happy. I need a woman and her love, to be happier.”   Episode Summary: Author of the most well-known and trusted relationship book of all time, Men Are from ... Show More
1h 47m
Oct 2024
Episode 335: How To Have Good Sex
If you had to define “good sex” in just three words, what would they be? In today’s show, we’re going to talk about the key things that come to mind when people are asked this question. There are 20 common responses to this, which constitute the main ingredients of the kind of se ... Show More
33m 12s
Mar 2025
Your Guide to Better Sex, Intimacy, & Love From a World-Leading Sex Therapist
In this episode, you are going to learn how to have amazing sex, deeper intimacy, and create real, lasting love. If you feel like intimacy with your partner is rare, your desire is low, or that your marriage is even sexless, this conversation is for you. Here to deliver the most ... Show More
1h 20m
May 6
EP437 - Tell Me What You Want: Tips for Talking About Sex
Welcome to Episode 437 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Brittany Steffen, LMFT, who speaks to me about how couples can navigate and deepen their sexual communication.  In this episode, Brittany and I discuss the kinds of conversations couples should ... Show More
43m 47s
Sep 2024
Ask Emily: Orgasms, Orientation & Oral
On today’s show, I answer your sex and relationship questions. I cover what to do if you’re questioning your sexuality while married with kids, how to initiate your first threesome, when (if ever) you should tell your partner how many people you’ve slept with, and ways to get mor ... Show More
39m 7s
Sep 2022
Navigating Mismatched Libidos With Sexologist Shan Boodram
Today's Hot Topic conversation finally tackles a common theme among our Shandies' relationship questions over the last 2 years: What to do when one partner wants to get frisky way more than the other? Shan Boodram, our esteemed expert joining us today, could not be more qualified ... Show More
1h 9m
Aug 2024
Make Her Orgasm! 💦 🥵
In this episode of Coffee and Cleavage, Lynnie, Shantal, and Gary delve into the art of helping her reach orgasm. They share a treasure trove of tips, from focusing on pleasure first to setting the right tone for intimacy. The trio emphasizes the importance of enthusiasm, patienc ... Show More
18m 55s