How do you give incredible, life-affirming oral sex to a vulva owner? While every body is different, I’m here to tell you that these are the techniques you absolutely need. First, we’ll talk the art of the tease. I explain how to use your tongue to intensify sensations and encourage arousal. I also get into everyone’s favorite: the Kivin Method. Next, I show ... Show More
Yesterday
What Really Turns You On? Keeping Desire Alive in LTR
In this workshop, I'm answering your questions about desire, attraction, turn-ons, fantasies, and sexual connection. We explore why we're attracted to certain people and experiences, how to talk about sex with a partner without creating pressure, what to do when desire changes ov ... Show More
53m 56s
May 29
Are Phones Ruining Our Sex Lives?
In this live episode recorded on May 21, 2026, I’m diving into how technology is reshaping our sex lives, relationships, dating habits, and emotional connection. From dating apps to social media, doomscrolling, and phone addiction, I unpack why so many of us feel more disconnecte ... Show More
48m 52s
May 26
Stop Faking Sleep to Avoid Sex (Let’s Talk About It)
In this livestream recorded on April 23, 2026, I’m diving into one of the most common and confusing issues in relationships: what happens when your sex life changes over time. We’re talking about desire mismatch, low libido, and why the “honeymoon phase” passion doesn’t stay the ... Show More
28m 1s
Jun 2022
358: How To Increase Pleasure And Get In Touch With Your Sexuality
Who doesn't want to feel more pleasure!? Listen to today's show for some amazing, actionable tips to increase your pleasure, get in touch with your sexuality and start to have mind-blowing sex. In this episode with Nicoletta Heidegger, we discuss relationship advice topics that i ... Show More
41m 9s
Jan 2023
113- myth or fact; throat orgasms, getting her to submit in the bedroom, and How To: Pleasuring Your Woman.
once upon a time a special guest discussed throat orgasms on THH- we have a few questions; HOW could this possibly be a thing?! Ive got the science/or lack thereof to say- plus other women's experience on the topic. Todays listener questions; one mans desire for more consistent s ... Show More
1h 4m