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Oct 2024
45m 8s

Why Your Relationships Only Last 3 Month...

Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski
About this episode

This podcast isn't just another "what's wrong with them" rant. Instead, we offer a fresh perspective that encourages personal growth and proactive strategies for fostering lasting relationships.

Get ready to discover:

  • Why the dating phase is crucial for long-term happiness.
  • The power of pacing—why rushing can ruin potential.
  • Strategies for building a resilient connection that endures the ups and downs.

So, before you blame fate or your last date, take a moment to listen to today's podcast. It might be the breakthrough you need to navigate the dating world with renewed confidence and strategic savvy.

Originally Aired: November 19th, 2023

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