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Oct 2024
1h 7m

EP 116: Leading through Anger, Hope, and...

Rebecca Ching, LMFT
About this episode

As the United States approaches one of the most important elections, many people I know are expressing how the current state of affairs is affecting their work, home life, and overall well-being.


With the stress and the chaos, it would be easy to shut down and ask, “Why bother?”


This is why it feels especially timely to bring back my long-time friend, Iowa state representative and state house minority leader, Jennifer Konfrst, to the podcast.


Whether it's a major election, a looming work deadline, or a personal goal, we all carry heavy responsibilities on top of what's happening in our country. I wanted to talk to Jennifer about how she finds the strength to keep going, even when the victories are hard-won or the losses are break-your-heart big.


Jennifer shares her not-so-secret recipe for staying true to her values and community, staying open and seeking support, which helps her avoid falling into despair and hopelessness. 


Her perspective is a source of hope, motivation, and a call to keep fighting that many of us need right now.


Jennifer Konfrst teaches public relations & strategic political communication courses at Drake University in Des Moines, IA. Before joining the Drake journalism faculty in 2013, she worked in public relations for 20 years, most recently at Iowa Public Television. 


She also serves as an Iowa House of Representatives member, representing the 43rd district since 2019. She is the House minority leader, a position she has held since 2021, and she is the first woman to hold this position in Iowa.


Listen to the full episode to hear:

  • What the Iowa Supreme Court ruling on abortion taught Jennifer about showing up even when you’re devastated and angry
  • The self-care that is essential for Jennifer in the face of setbacks and struggles at the State House
  • How Jennifer builds trust in her leadership with her caucus in her role as House Minority Leader
  • How consistently highlighting and celebrating even small wins helps keep people motivated
  • How her personal healing work has helped Jennifer allow for disagreement and conflict within her caucus
  • The challenges of trust with voters, representatives across the aisle, and within her party
  • The case for getting and staying engaged in politics, especially at the local level


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