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Oct 2024
24m 25s

How I dodged the P. Diddy bullet

Erika Cramer
About this episode

Today’s episode is a little different, and I’m diving deep into a personal story that taught me some serious life lessons about intuition, self-worth, and protecting your energy.

I’m taking you back to a time when I almost got wrapped up in Puff Daddy’s world. Yep, you heard that right—P. Diddy.

But this isn’t just a story about a near-miss with fame. It’s a much bigger conversation about the way women are treated in the entertainment industry, the pressures we face to fit in, and the importance of listening to that inner voice that always knows what’s best for us.

In this episode, I share the moment I chose to walk away from what could have been a dangerous situation and how trusting my gut literally saved me from making a huge mistake.

I want to highlight the societal pressures that push women to compromise their dignity and safety for opportunities that seem too good to pass up.

We’ve all been there—feeling like we need to go along with things just to get ahead or be accepted. But this episode is a reminder that your self-worth is non-negotiable.

You don’t owe anyone anything, and no amount of fame or validation is worth sacrificing your safety or your values.

Throughout this episode, I get real about my experiences and why it’s so important for women to trust their intuition and stand firm in who they are.

I’m here to remind you that you deserve to navigate your life with confidence, knowing your worth and setting boundaries that protect your energy.

Key Takeaways:

  • Trusting your intuition can protect you from dangerous situations and unwanted advances.
  • Self-worth and confidence are essential for navigating challenges and making empowered choices.
  • It’s important to listen to your gut when faced with discomfort, especially in high-pressure environments.
  • Women often face societal pressures that undermine their self-respect and boundaries.
  • Building resilience from past experiences can strengthen your intuition and decision-making.
  • Having clear personal boundaries is crucial, especially in the modeling and entertainment industries.


Connect with me:

  • Follow Erika on Instagram @thequeenofconfidence
  • AND If you want to get the private podcast you can pre-order my book here and get your bonuses https://thequeenofconfidence.com/becomingmagneticbook/

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