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Mar 2025
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The Truth About Building Confidence, Com...

Lori Harder | YAP Media
About this episode

Want to know how to build a powerful network even when you feel intimidated or unsure where to start? In this episode, I’m sharing my conversation on The Liz Moody Podcast with Liz herself where we go deep into how I’ve created the community that changed my life and business. I talk about the mindset shifts I had to make to overcome insecurity, imposter syndrome, and even jealousy in order to build real connections. I share how building real community gave me the courage to take big risks, and the one advice you can take today to start forming the relationships that will shape your future. We also cover the exact steps to take if you’re starting from scratch, how to find your people in your city, and why deep friendships are the secret to taking bold risks and becoming the person you’re meant to be. 


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HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 What I learned from growing up with limited connections.

05:00 The experience that first expanded what I thought was possible.

09:15 How environment shapes your identity and your future.

12:45 Why I once believed I was better off alone.

16:00 The story of how Chris and I met.

21:00 The mantra Chris and I use every single morning.

23:45 My daily practice for shifting your energy and deepening relationships.

30:00 Why do you need to release expectations in relationships?

36:00 How to transition away from people who drain you.

39:15 Why healthy relationships have to be INTENTIONALLY built.

43:15 What does it mean to be an aggregator in your industry?

47:30 How I seek mentorship and add value before I ask for anything.

54:00 Tips for reaching out to someone you admire.

57:00 How do you know when a spend is gonna have a good payoff?

01:02:45 How to overcome the “I don’t belong here” feeling.

01:06:00 The mistake I made early in her career because of insecurity.

01:09:00 How a strong support system makes you “uncancellable” in life and business.

01:11:00 The story behind how the Earn Your Happy podcast got its name.


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