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Oct 2024
39m 34s

Self-Sabotage and Bipolar: Breaking the ...

Gabe Howard & Dr. Nicole Washington
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Dive into the intricate dance between self-sabotage and bipolar disorder in this eye-opening episode. Join Gabe Howard, who lives with bipolar, and Dr. Nicole Washington as they explore the often unrecognized ways that bipolar symptoms can lead to unconscious self-sabotaging behaviors.

Discover how to identify patterns of self-sabotage and why understanding the "why" behind your actions is crucial for growth. If you’ve ever felt trapped by your own choices or wondered how to break free from destructive cycles, this episode offers valuable insights and actionable steps to reclaim control over your life. Don’t miss out on this essential conversation that blends lived experience with expert advice—tune in and start your journey toward healing today.

"I think a lot of people are more aware of self-sabotage than they think. So when we talk about combating it, if people say to you, you're always self-destructing, you're always blowing up your spot, you're always causing yourself issues. You're your own worst enemy. You need to get out of your own way. These are all other ways to describe you’re self-sabotaging.” ~Gabe Howard, Host


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To learn more -- or read the transcript -- please visit the official episode page.


Our Host, Gabe Howard, is an award-winning writer and speaker who lives with bipolar disorder. He is the author of the popular book, "Mental Illness is an Asshole and other Observations," available from Amazon; signed copies are also available directly from the author.

To learn more about Gabe, or book him for your next event, please visit his website, gabehoward.com. You can also follow him on Instagram and TikTok at @askabipolar.


Our host, Dr. Nicole Washington, is a native of Baton Rouge, Louisiana, where she attended Southern University and A&M College. After receiving her BS degree, she moved to Tulsa, Oklahoma to enroll in the Oklahoma State University College of Osteopathic Medicine. She completed a residency in psychiatry at the University of Oklahoma in Tulsa. Since completing her residency training, Washington has spent most of her career caring for and being an advocate for those who are not typically consumers of mental health services, namely underserved communities, those with severe mental health conditions, and high performing professionals. Through her private practice, podcast, speaking, and writing, she seeks to provide education to decrease the stigma associated with psychiatric conditions. Find out more at DrNicolePsych.com.

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