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Oct 2024
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Are They Avoidant Or Just Not Interested...

Thais Gibson | YAP Media
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Have you ever experienced initial chemistry with someone only for them to pull away, leaving you confused? You’re not alone!

Thais unpacks how to recognize the early signs of avoidant attachment versus someone simply not being interested. Learn how to distinguish between these behaviors and gain clarity for your future relationships. She breaks down six key indicators to help you navigate your dating life with confidence and emotional insight.

If you’re ready to stop second-guessing and move forward with healthier connections, this episode is for you!


Timestamps

00:00:00 - Intro

00:01:13 - Attachment Theory

00:02:38 - Initial Enthusiasm

00:04:13 - Communication patterns

00:05:10 - Emotional vulnerability

00:06:18 - Slow to Warm Up

00:07:09 - Fall IAT Promo

00:08:05 - Future Planning

00:09:19 - 7-Day Free Trial: How To Master the Dating Stage

00:09:52 - Relationship History

00:10:41 - Conclusion


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