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Oct 2024
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203- how long should good sex take & whe...

Jordyn Hakes | Pleasure Podcasts
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How long should good sex be? I took a poll what is the ideal sex time; quickies, >20 min, or hour+...tune in to find out what the listeners had to say. Today I am discussing my maybe harsh opinion on your spouse "letting themselves go"- along with answering your burning listener questions! One husbands wife seems to be ashamed of her love of her bbc dildo... ... Show More
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