logo
episode-header-image
Oct 2024
35m 36s

236. How to make hard decisions

iHeartPodcasts
About this episode

At some stage in our 20s we'll have to make a life changing decision where the right choice is not at all clear: stay or leave my job, the country, my relationships? We can become paralysed in that moment, unable to take a step forward, not realising that doing nothing is, in itself, a decision. In today's episode we break down: 

  • Why we struggle to make hard decisions
  • The paradox of choice 
  • Indecisiveness and a lack of self trust 
  • The 'Wisest Self' thought exercise
  • The 10/10/10 rule for making hard decisions 
  • The role of regret and fear 

Listen now if you're struggling with some hard choices in your 20s! 

Follow Jemma on Instagram: @jemmasbeg

Follow the podcast on Instagram: @thatpsychologypodcast

For business: psychologyofyour20s@gmail.com 

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Up next
Oct 7
340. The 10 regrets I have about my 20s (so far)
Today I'm reflecting on some of the lessons I've been taking from my early 20s. We all have regrets about things we wish we'd done differently or not done at all, and I'm hoping you can learn from mine. We talk about everything from bad financial decisions, ghosting friends, stay ... Show More
39m 2s
Oct 2
339. The psychology of rock bottom
Hitting rock bottom is one of the most painful human experiences - when the future is blurry, the past feels heavy, and you barely recognize the person staring back in the mirror. Maybe it’s the end of a relationship, losing your job, battling addiction, or simply feeling like ev ... Show More
40m 1s
Oct 1
I Am Not Here To Manage Other People's Emotions
In this bonus release, I am sharing an episode of my other podcast, MANTRA. This week's mantra is I Am Not Here to Manage Other People’s Emotions. It's a common trap to feel responsible for the feelings of those around us, often at the expense of our own emotional well-being. But ... Show More
32m 24s
Recommended Episodes
Sep 12
Give Me 30 Minutes and You Will Never Struggle With a Decision Again
Do you find it hard to decide? What usually makes it hard for you? Today, Jay dives into two of the biggest roadblocks that keep us from living the life we want: overthinking and procrastination. If you’ve ever found yourself stuck on a decision for weeks, second-guessing every c ... Show More
23m 30s
Jul 7
How To Design Your Life One Powerful Decision at a Time with Adrienne Adhami
In this episode, we’re talking about how to make life-changing decisions that are right for you, in a world where we’re faced with endless choice, people pleasing & thousands of opinions.As always, I’m being joined by an expert. Adrienne Adhami is a wellness coach who has written ... Show More
54m 22s
Jan 2025
190. Decision Making with Intention: 7 Powerful Questions to Ask Yourself When Making Decisions
In this episode, I share seven powerful questions you should ask yourself before making any big decision in life. Drawing from my personal experiences of rushed choices and life lessons, I explore how to align your decisions with your core values, tap into your intuition, and cho ... Show More
37m 51s
Aug 12
How to Make a Big Decision (Faster!)
Making big decisions can feel paralyzing. Whether it's choosing a new job, moving to a different city, or deciding if you should break up with someone, these choices can keep you agonizingly stuck, forever cycling through pros and cons.My guest can help you finally choose and mov ... Show More
52m 15s
Feb 2025
Learn To Love Yourself More Than Anyone Else | Best Motivational Speeches of 2025 (So Far)
The biggest decisions in life aren’t made through spreadsheets or endless analysis—they’re made with heart, intuition, and courage. Jeff Bezos once said his best decisions weren’t based on data but on instinct, and that realization connected some dots for me. When it comes to sha ... Show More
2h 57m
May 2025
How to Manage Times of Uncertainty
If life feels chaotic and you're tired of feeling off-track, it’s not just the uncertainty—it’s the lack of intentionality that's stealing your momentum. In this powerful episode, Brendon Burchard shares how to navigate turbulent times with clarity, courage, and self-leadership. ... Show More
23m 16s
Dec 2024
Decision Making For Better Relationships | Dan Ariely
In today’s episode, we discuss the science of human decision-making and behavior with Dan Ariely, a world-renowned expert in psychology and behavioral economics. As the James B. Duke Professor of Psychology and Behavioral Economics at Duke University, Dan has dedicated his career ... Show More
55m 8s
Mar 2020
08: Transitioning Into Your Next Level with Melinda Wittstock
Learning that failure is just part of the process of life is just one of the several hot topics Melinda Wittstock and I cover on this episode of Not Over, Just Different. We discuss how to transition into new chapters in life gracefully, and share why you don’t need to be afraid ... Show More
40m 53s
Jan 2024
Delicate Dance Between Choice and Decision
In this episode of Get Your Rear in Gear with Lori, host Lori McAfee dives deep into the power of choices and decisions. She explores the significance of even the smallest decisions and how they can shape our lives. From understanding the difference between a choice and a decisio ... Show More
12m 56s
Jan 2025
199. How to Cultivate Radical Self-Compassion in Tough Moments
🎧 Life is full of setbacks, and it’s during those tough moments that self-compassion becomes more important than ever. But how do you show yourself love and kindness when your inner critic is the loudest voice in the room? In this episode, we’ll explore the transformative power ... Show More
53m 25s