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Sep 2024
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New Ways to Handle Jealousy ft. Joli Ham...

Cami and Niki
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Welcome back DT Fam :) Dr. Joli Hamilton joins us today, and she is a jealousy researcher, so of course we had a ton of questions about handling jealousy in now monogamous relationships. The methods can definitely look different when comparing non-monogamous vs monogamous containers. She also takes us through her apology ladder, which is a great tool to ensu ... Show More
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