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Sep 2024
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Green Flags To Look For In Healthy Frien...

ALLISON WETIG AND CEARA KIRKPATRICK
About this episode

Allison and Ceara are joined by Rachel Lovely, a content creator known for giving incredible advice and “girl-talk” style rants on her TikTok page, @rachelovely5.

Rachel shares advice through her learned experiences and ability to analyze situations for what they really are. We unpack what truly makes a good friend, why you are the sum of the people you surround yourself with, and how honesty and vulnerability are key to fostering meaningful connections.

Whether you're in a relationship, navigating a situationship, or working on becoming a better friend, this episode will leave you feeling inspired to take charge of your connections and cultivate the love and friendships you deserve.


TOPICS DISCUSSED: 

  • Vulnerability in relationships requires courage and a willingness to trust others with personal experiences and emotions
  • Why supportive friendships are crucial for personal growth
  • Showing gratitude and appreciation for what we have
  • How to find clarity in situationships
  • Why being an attentive listener is important 
  • What being a considerate friend looks like 
  • Being a good listener and showing empathy
  • Why setting boundaries is crucial for maintaining healthy relationships


TIMESTAMPS:

(00:00) Introduction and Peaks of the Week

(10:49) Rachel's Content Creation Journey and Supportive Friends

(21:54) The Importance of Vulnerability in Relationships

(24:40) Signs of Confidence and the Role of Gratitude

(30:16) The Power of Listening and Creating a Safe Space

(32:11) Consideration for Others and the Impact of Being a Good Listener

(33:00) The Importance of Listening and Making Others Feel Welcome

(35:18) Reconnecting with High School Crush: A Love Story

(37:11) Astrology and Dating Preferences

(39:07) Setting Boundaries for Healthy Relationships

(40:31) Qualities of a Good Friend

(44:21) The Role of Open Communication in Relationships


MENTIONS:

Rachel’s TikTok, Instagram

Rachel’s Photography Business


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