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Jul 2024
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S3E6: Is Boarding School the Right Choic...

Thomas Caleel
About this episode

In this episode of the "Admittedly" podcast, host Thomas Caleel discusses US boarding schools. He shares some details from his own experience as a Taft student and parent through the years, as well as advice on who might be a good fit for boarding school life. With many pros for the right student and potential cons for an ill fit, boarding schools are a complicated and important consideration.

Summary of Key Points:

  1. Introduction to Boarding Schools: Caleel introduces boarding schools as educational institutions where students live on campus, with the focus of this episode being on U.S. boarding schools. These schools provide a closed community where the institution acts in loco parentis.

  2. Student Suitability: Caleel advises that boarding schools are best for students who desire independence, thrive in academically rigorous environments, and are comfortable with dynamic, student-led learning styles like the Harkness Table method. The decision to attend should come from the student to ensure genuine investment and successful adaptation.

  3. Academic and Social Experience: Boarding schools offer a rich array of academic opportunities, including small seminar classes and diverse extracurricular activities, which allow students to deeply engage with their interests. The close-knit residential setting fosters strong peer relationships and provides additional time for academic and personal growth.

  4. Challenges and Adaptation: Boarding schools present challenges such as peer pressure, loneliness, and the need for resilience in a demanding environment. Students must be capable of handling independence and navigating social and academic pressures without daily parental oversight.

  5. College Admission Myths: Attending a top boarding school does not guarantee admission to elite universities due to intense competition and the need for students to stand out among equally accomplished peers. Success in the college admissions process requires hard work, distinguishing oneself academically, and engaging actively in the boarding school community.

Boarding schools, especially in the U.S., are residential educational institutions that provide a structured and close-knit community for students seeking independence and rigorous academics. Suitable for motivated students, these schools offer unique learning opportunities and extracurricular activities but also demand resilience and adaptability due to their challenging environments. Despite their prestigious reputation, boarding schools do not guarantee entry to elite universities, and students must work hard to stand out in the competitive admissions landscape.

About Thomas Caleel

Thomas is an alumnus of the University of Pennsylvania. After earning his MBA at the Wharton School of Business in 2003, he moved to Silicon Valley. For three years, he was Director of MBA Admissions and Financial Aid at Wharton. He worked closely with admissions professionals, students, alumni, and professors to curate the best possible MBA class. Thomas has been an entrepreneur his entire life in the fields of finance, agriculture, wellness, and sporting goods. As the founder of Global Education Opportunities LLC, he works as a high-level admissions advisor to help families and students achieve their education goals. Thomas started the podcast Admittedly because he is passionate about demystifying the application process for all parents and applicants.

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