About this episode
Miss Cassie returns to talk about self-bondage and rope play.Ms Erika starts off the conversation with a question about how Distance Domination Femdoms can incorporate self bondage into BDSM sessions over the phone. Miss Cassie points out that a long distance Mistress can talk someone through a tie or use other things to create the feelings of being bound, tied, restrained or otherwise controlled by her.
The ladies discuss how vivid descriptions can combine with some simple physical actions to create the feelings, emotions, and sensations of a bondage scene. Miss Cassie points out that descriptions are important even during in-person sessions in a Dominatrix Dungeon.
Things to consider:What is your self bondage safety plan?Importance of a safe word in BDSM play in person on onlineHigh protocol versus freely speaking during a scene
Ideas and questions from listeners:Using remote controlled sex toys during online domination sessionsUsing a timed lock box for keys similar to a lock box used for chastity keysPredicament play safetyEdge play and special issues involved in BDSM negotiationKeeping safety scissors nearby just in case you need them
Special considerations for submissive men who are in a relationship with a vanilla woman:How to avoid leaving marksWhat causes marks and how long various marks last, for example, tying up the cock and balls (CBT) can leave small broken capillaries.Marks will depend on the scene, the tie of the ropes and the physical fitness of the submissive.
What can someone use for self bondage? Examples include:Sweatband, headband or scrunchieShoe laces¼ inch diameter rope Paracord Zone mummification with plastic wrap
Of course, you’ll hear stories from this elite Pro Domme and personal stories from all three Femdoms.
Miss Cassie’s website: Miss Cassie Loves Rope
Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
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