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Aug 2019
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36 BDSM is Chic (Mistress Couple & Rache...

REMY KASSIMIR
About this episode

This week we are talking BDSM! Everything from being a Sub, Dom--to both, to catching a whip with your genitals and exploring your sexual fantasies.  Remy welcomes NYC stand-up comedian Rachel Sennott to learn about BDSM and we are joined by Professional Dominatrix and sexpert Mistress Couple. She guides us through her initiation into the world of bondage and dominance and her first night moving into La Domaine Esemar, the oldest BDSM chateau in the world.

We talk about the importance of consent within the BDSM community, and how it has changed over the years, the psychological aspect of behind being a Dom, and what your fantasies say about you. We also discuss how your senses can heighten sexual pleasure and how you can train to use them to your advantage – even through something as simple as eating a bowl of spaghetti or an egg-roll.

Finally, we discuss different types of instruments and types of play; psychological, financial domination, tickling, and the importance of aftercare. We also discuss what a balloon fantasy is and which of our guests has one!

Stay tuned for a sneak peek of our Live Podcast about Herpes at the end of the episode, and head on over to Patreon to listen to the full episode.

Follow us: @TreaclyChild @MistressCouple @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir and @Charkasstic

Join us for our next LIVE podcast September 26th 9pm at The Stand about losing your orgasm and finding it again- with special guests Nikki Glaser and Andrew Collin

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