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Aug 2024
14m 22s

What to Say When You Cry in an Argument

Civility Media
About this episode

You’re in a heated argument, and suddenly, tears start to well up. No matter how hard you try, you can’t stop them from falling. What do you do when you cry during an argument?

In this episode, I’m revealing 3 simple rules you must follow when you cry in an argument. These strategies will help you maintain your composure, communicate effectively, and keep the conversation on track.

Plus, I’ll talk about common mistakes people make when emotions run high and how you can avoid them to stay in control and get your point across.

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