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Aug 2024
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#142: Embarrassed About Your Past Dating...

Gloria Zhang, MA
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"Shame is like a virus. If you keep it inside, it will slowly fester and slowly kill you over time.”

Was your previous dating life a bit.. sh*tty?

Whether it's falling for narcissists, having inappropriate crushes, or being the toxic partner in a relationship, these choices can weigh heavily on our self-esteem and hinder our ability to move forward.

But bestie, it's okay! Okay?? I'll tell you why in today's episode as I delve deeper into the unspoken feelings of shame and embarrassment around past dating decisions. We'll talk about the most common dating choices that lead to shame and how you can offer that compassionate approach to your inner child so you can heal and forgive yourself moving forward. 

Listen til the end so you can learn from my powerful three-step call to action towards self-forgiveness and healing.

JOIN THE "THE LOVABLE WOMAN": Go from feeling like a "Doormat" to "Dream Girl" in just 5 days...
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EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

  1. How to understand shame in dating and why you shouldn't beat yourself up for it
  2. Four common dating choices that lead to shame
  3. Call to Action: Listen to stories from other people who went through the same thing, talk to someone you trust about your experiences, and Join The Lovable Woman:
    https://bygloriazhang.com/thelovablewoman

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MENTIONED IN PODCAST:

  1. Listen to Episode #139: From Divorce & Depression to DREAM Relationship w / Dr. Tristan Buzzini (Success Story)
  2. Listen to Episode #94: From Closed Off & Paranoid To Secure And Loved with Guida (Client Success Story)
  3. Listen to Episode #87: Escaping "Hot & Cold" Serial Monogamy with Carla (Success Story)
  4. Listen to Episode #82: Healing Sexual & Spiritual Abuse with Karlin (Success Story)

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OTHER RESOURCES:

  1. Follow for daily inspo on @bygloriazhang!
  2. Follow for dating advice @soulmatemethod
  3. Book A Free Love Breakthrough Call: Learn to see if the Soulmate program is right for you by booking a free call here.

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