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Aug 2024
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304. The Parent’s Guide to Letting Go: T...

KELLY LEVEQUE
About this episode

In today's episode, we meet Jessica Lahey, author of the New York Times bestseller, The Gift of Failure: How The Best Parents Learn To Let Go So Their Children Can Succeed. Informed by over two decades of teaching experience and a robust writing career, Jessica shares her relatable insights on education and parenting.

I absolutely devoured this book and I’m thrilled to dive into it with Jessica. We break down a few of its most illuminating parenting insights, like the importance of allowing children to experience failure and how it contributes to their growth and resilience. Jessica explains why failure shouldn't be seen as a dirty word and reveals how it can be a powerful learning tool, instead.

This episode is packed with valuable insights that will help you raise more independent, confident, and capable children. I’m so thankful for the time Jessica spent with us today. If you are a parent, I highly recommend The Gift of Failure.

We also cover:

(00:01:02) Why Kids Avoid Challenges & Problem Solving

(00:17:36) What Does & Does NOT Work to Encourage Kids at School

(00:29:49) Boosting Motivation & Supporting Self-Efficacy Through Modeling

(00:45:40) Countering The Daunted College Prep Stress

(00:57:24) Parenting for Independence: Best Practices

Resources:

Click here for full show notes

• Website: jessicalahey.com

• Read: The Gift of Failure by Jessica Lahey

• Instagram: @teacherlahey

• Linkedin: Jessica Lahey

• YouTube: Jessica Lahey

• Podcast: #AmWriting

• GoodReads: Jessica Lahey

Connect with Kelly:

kellyleveque.com

• Instagram: @bewellbykelly

• Facebook: www.facebook.com/bewellbykelly

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