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Aug 2024
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When she said her mom & husband had an a...

Pionaire Podcasting
About this episode


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This episode originally aired in Season 5

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We haven't spent enough family time this holiday season...so let's keep it in the family this episode....This week we have a submission a la TikTok where a woman says her husband and mother had an affair that led to their divorce!

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This week we're raising awareness for Coburn Place in Indianapolis: https://coburnplace.org/

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Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8

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Follow the podcast!

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Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/

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Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/

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The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/

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Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(06:41): How they met

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(15:51): The first major problem in their relationship

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(22:17): When her mom became enmeshed in the relationship

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(30:56): Possible Grooming Behavior

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(37:01): Discovering the affair

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(49:11): Confronting her mother and husband

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(59:30): The aftermath of the conflict

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(01:07:00): The continuation of the affair post-conflict/divorce proceedings

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(01:11:46): Therapy journey/domestic violence resources

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(01:15:39): Reflecting/advice

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(01:21:32): Teaser

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[CONTENT WARNINGS: miscarriage/loss of child, infertility, domestic violence, grooming]



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