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Aug 2024
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Vasectomies, Sex Toys, and Should Women ...

Shaun Galanos and John Kim
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Today, John and Shaun discuss how they handle criticism on social media, men getting vasectomies, using sex toys in the bedroom, and hall passes for celebrity crushes. They also answer a listener's question and give advice about whether women should wait for men to chase them, or if they should ask men out first.


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